Queer Sea Marriage: Towards a Collective Performance

Queer Sea Marriage is a project by Benedetta Panisson, a Venetian artist and academic researcher focused on maritime gender and erotic imaginaries. Rooted in a transcultural and ecofeminist analysis of the traditional Venetian ritual of the Sposalizio con il Mare, the project proposes a collective performance as an inclusive, de-hierarchized, and intimate alternative to unite the Venetian community with the Adriatic Sea.
Since the year 1000, the Doge has married the sea. Aboard the lavish Bucintoro ship, he cast a gold ring into the waves and blessed the water in exchange for prosperity. This ritual staged a patriarchal relationship in which the male human sought to dominate the sea-female-bride. The pronounced formula: “Desposamus te, mare. In signum veri perpetuique dominii” (“We wed thee, O sea, as a sign of true and perpetual dominion”).
Today, the ceremony is performed by the mayor, following the historical tradition. It takes place where the M.O.S.E., a controversial flood protection system, now stands between the lagoon and the sea—fulfilling technologically what was once believed to be achieved through marriage.

Performance Proposal
The performance, the result of a participatory and widespread process, will be both a collective and intimate gesture, stripped down to its minimum: bodies and water, a collective immersion. We dispense with the Doge’s lavish boat, gold ring, formulas, ostentatious display, and the hierarchical distance between a male of power and the sea. Instead, we shift from exploitation to coexistence with the sea, from a patriarchal structure to a horizontal experience, from domination to affection. As an aesthetic reference, I proposed People Do Water (OPR Gallery, 2024): a series of film photographs depicting people simply immersed in various seas, capturing a moment of pleasure. This imagery of unity and lightness, beyond the prevalent eco-panic, expresses love for the sea amidst the global crisis of rising sea levels. It connects island communities and positions itself as a contemporary continuation of the historic wedding ritual, while re-signifying it. The number of participants will be determined gradually, respecting the sea and the chosen bathing site. In June 2025, we will stage a demo of the performance with approximately 50 participants to experiment with aesthetic details and gather visual materials for a broader version.

Project Background and Upcoming Events
Queer Sea Marriage was presented as an academic research project at the conference “Materiality at the Intersections of Ecologies and Religious Studies” (Fondazione Giorgio Cini, Venice, May 2024), with the support of Durham University. The Marriage to the Sea ritual was analyzed through the lenses of gender and visual studies, highlighting its patriarchal and exploitative relationship with the maritime element, the cultural construct of the sea’s feminization as a means of subjugation, and its aesthetic significance. Other historical examples of marriages to the sea were explored, along with contemporary precedents in performance art, such as the work of Annie Sprinkle and Beth Stephens. The discussion emphasized the importance of designing a collective performance and the deep interconnection between artistic practice and academic research.
The project was later presented at Undercurrents, Transeuropa Festival (November 2024), in a workshop curated by European Alternatives, Rete Arcipelago, Marianna Biadene, Associazione Gamaka, and Alessandra Marzini. This public engagement marked a crucial step in opening the project to broader participation, bringing together associations, university representatives, and local citizens. The event fostered enthusiasm, support, and momentum for the next phase: transforming academic research and artistic practice into an intimate, collective action with the sea.
In March 2'025, the project has been part of Aquamour Festival, at "Hydrofeminism", with Anna Street, Francesca Chialà e Benedetta Panisson, at the Home of The Human Safety Net, and at the ueer Sea Marriage workshop, together with Kyoo Lee and Marianna Biadene, sharing the project's developments and the aesthetic and practical details of the upcoming collective performance.
In June 2025, Queer Sea Marriage will be presented at the SIEF – International Society for Ethnology and Folklore conference in Aberdeen, Scotland, as part of the panel “Coastal (Re)entanglements: Unwritten Remembrances and Assemblages in Verbal and Visual Arts and Performance”. This will allow the project to engage in dialogue with other maritime cultures and performative practices.
Interviews related to the project have been published in Transeuropa Journal 2024 and in Relazioni:, by Luca Sossella Editore. Each public presentation—whether in academic or artistic contexts—is carefully documented, ensuring the project remains an evolving, shared work-inprogress across multiple platforms.

Technical details
Academic Panels, workshops, ongoing live perfomance.

Exhibitions | Workshops | Talks
2025, (upcoming) Queer Sea Marriage
at SIEF International Society for Ethnology and Folklore Conference, Aberdeen, Scotland.
2025, Aquamour Festival,
curated by Sumus, “Hydrofeminism” conference with Anna Street and Francesca Chialà and workshop with Kyoo Lee, curator, and Marianna Biadene, co-curator and local project manager.
2024, Transeuropa Festival,
curated by European Alternatives, various location, Venice. Workshop curated by Rete Arcipelago, Marianna Biadene, Associazione Gamaka, Alessandra Marzini.
2024, Queering the Marriage of the Sea, at Materiality at the Intersection of Ecologies and Religious Studies, organized by Giorgio Cini Foundation, Harvard University (Harvard Divinity School), NICHE, Ca' Foscari University of Venice, University College Dublin, Venice.

Honored to present my "Queering the Marriage of the Sea" at the conference “Materiality at the Intersection of Ecology and Religious Studies”, organized by Fondazione Giorgio Cini (the Centre for Comparative Studies of Civilisations and Spiritualities), Harvard Divinity School (Center for the Study of World Religions), @harvarddivinity, Ca’ Foscari University of Venice (THE NEW INSTITUTE Centre for Environmental Humanities – NICHE, the Center for the Study of Lived Religion, and the Department of Asian and North African Studies), University College Dublin (Irish Research Council Government of Ireland) @universitycollegedublin

Abstract
In 1000 the doge of Venice, Pietro II Orseolo, married the sea. The union took place at the port mouth of of S. Nicolò. He was clad in ermine and with a horn on his head; he slowly paraded aboard the Bucintoro, to such an extent barded with gold statues that it became an object unfit for navigation. Blessed water was poured into the water, a ring was thrown into the waves. Desposamus te, mare. In signum veri perpetuique dominii, the formula says. The ceremony was made sacred by Pope Alexander III in 1173 with the words, Doge of Venice, this is the wedding ring of your marriage to the sea. From now on, we want you and your successors to marry her every year. The doge is a male, therefore, the sea a female. The ceremony, for centuries, represented a spiritual gesture of mutual protection: the male doge by taming her, the female sea by promising not to provoke unfavorable storms. The political and economic value of dominance over the seas, which the Serenissima particularly cared about, was also stated. Three inversions are proposed: from assigning a gender identity to the sea and enacting patriarchal-marital domination, to embracing a fluid relationship with it; from exploiting maritime resources to protecting the sea ecologically; and from a hierarchical structure with a powerful man (formerly the Doge, today the mayor and a Church member) to an horizontal inclusivity. Furthermore, in the context of global interdependence between island cultures - relevant today with the common issue of the rising sea levels - it is crucial to connect this ritual between humans and the sea with other island cultures and their sea-related rituals. This project focuses on the value of the sea and intertwines it with issues of gender and queer-feminist ecology concerning aquatic spaces.

As in the case of other projects by Benedetta Panisson, also Queer Sea Marriage has a double outcome: an academic research about the relation between humans and waterscapes under a queer and gender studies’ lens, and a work in progress of a collective and participated art performance. The project opens a dialogue both with local community and with previous artistic projects, such as the one by Anne Sprinkle and Elisabeth Stephens, Wedding the Sea, in the nexus between eco-queer feminism, waterscapes, and performing arts.

May 21-23, Venice

https://www.cini.it/eventi/convegno-materiality-at-the-intersection-of-ecology-and-religious-studies

"Queering the Marriage of the Sea" at the conference “Materiality at the Intersection of Ecology and Religious Studies”, organized by Fondazione Giorgio Cini (the Centre for Comparative Studies of Civilisations and Spiritualities), Harvard Divinity School (Center for the Study of World Religions), @harvarddivinity, Ca’ Foscari University of Venice (THE NEW INSTITUTE Centre for Environmental Humanities – NICHE, the Center for the Study of Lived Religion, and the Department of Asian and North African Studies), University College Dublin (Irish Research Council Government of Ireland) @universitycollegedublin

Intervista con Relazioni, gruppo Editoriale Luca Sossella | 2024. Full article here

 
 

"Queering the Marriage of the Sea" at the conference “Materiality at the Intersection of Ecology and Religious Studies”, organized by Fondazione Giorgio Cini (the Centre for Comparative Studies of Civilisations and Spiritualities), Harvard Divinity School (Center for the Study of World Religions), Ca’ Foscari University of Venice (THE NEW INSTITUTE Centre for Environmental Humanities – NICHE, the Center for the Study of Lived Religion, and the Department of Asian and North African Studies), University College Dublin (Irish Research Council Government of Ireland)

 
 

Queer Sea Marriage is part of Transeuropa Festival, 6-10 Nov. 2024, Venice. https://transeuropafestival.eu/

Queer Sea Marriage is part of Transeuropa Festival, 6-10 Nov. 2024, Venice. https://transeuropafestival.eu/

https://transeuropafestival.eu/ | workshop curate by Associazione Arcipelago, Marianna Biadene and Alessandra Marzini, https://associazionegamaka.blogspot.com/ | video credit: Patrick Tombola

 
 

Queer Sea Marriage at Transueropa Festival | Nov 2024 | Venice, curated by Transeuropa Festival, Rete Arcipelago, Marianna Biadene, Alessandra Marzini. The project was presented at a workshop as an open process to analyze and deconstruct the traditional Marriage to the Sea, focusing on patriarchy, domination, feminization of the sea, trying to convert this dynamic in a performance proposal above all these hiearchy and heternormative powers. To the participants and the Venetian community an alternative collective perfomance has been proposed, with the sea, and its community, at the centre, focusing on the love for the sea, inclusivity, and an horizontal process. Giving up the gold ring, the opulence, the patriarchal wedding, and the distance between the powerful male figure and the aquatic element, in favor of a collective act of immersion in the sea—one that is inclusive, minimal, quiet, respectful, and above all, grounded in a dynamic of pleasure. The project is going to follow in the next few months and all participants, associations, and interested people will be updated. Extra materials will be soon available. Photo Credits: Transeuropa Festival, Claudia Correnti, Anita.

 
 

Dear All,

I am pleased to inform you that the Queer Sea Marriage project is sailing full speed ahead! This time, you can find us at the Aquamour Festival, curated by Associazione Sumus, taking place in Venice from March 21 to 25. An opportunity to continue our exploration of the traditional Venetian Marriage of the Sea, working towards a collective performance with the sea.

We look forward to seeing you at two key events:

Sunday, March 23, from 2:30 PM to 3:30 PMHydrofeminism Conference with Anna Street, Francesca Chialà, and Benedetta Panisson @ The Home of the Human Safety Net, Piazza San Marco, 105. Free entry.

Monday, March 24, from 2:30 PM to 3:30 PMQueer Sea Marriage Workshop @ Fabbrica 33, Cannaregio 5063. Together with Kyoo Lee (curator) and Marianna Biadene (co-curator and local project coordinator), we will share updates on the project and begin working on the aesthetic and practical details of the collective performance. Free entry.

We especially welcome the participation of Venetians, considering the collective nature of this project.

Here is the full Aquamour Festival program.

Kyoo Lee’s Bio (Queer Sea Marriage’s Curator)
Kyoo Lee aka Q, Professor of Philosophy at the City University of New York and Editor of philoSOPHIA: A Journal of transContinental Feminism, is a philosopher, writer, critic and curator. Q’s recent curatorial projects include work as the editorial manager for the Korean Pavilion at the Venice Art Biennale 2022 (Gyre by Yunchul Kim); the adviser, collaborator and presenter at the 30th anniversary exhibition on the Korean Pavilion at the Venice Art Biennale, 1995-2024 (Every Island is a Mountain by Arts Council Korea, 2024); a guest curator at Museo d’Arte Orientale, Turin (Shamanism Room, The Rabbit Inhabits the Moon, 2024-5); and the founding curator of the ESTUAR series (2023-) where “water meets water,” a context-specific project started on the island of Sant’Andrea in collaboration with Microclima, Venice. The author of Reading Descartes Otherwise, a chapbook Entanglish, a forthcoming book on visual philopoetics and many other texts on other matters, Q has been a recipient of faculty fellowships from Cambridge University, KIAS, the NEH and the Mellon Foundation among others. In 2022, in recognition of Q’s transdisciplinary philopoetic scholarship where critical theory meets creative prose, Society for Phenomenology and Existential Philosophy (SPEP) established ‘The Kyoo “Q” Lee Prize for Best Paper on LGBTQ Issues in Philosophy’ also to promote genre-bending innovative work among emerging scholars. 

Marianna Biadene’s Bio (Queer Sea Marriage’s co-curator and local project coordinator)
Dancer/choreographer and performing artist, Marianna trained in contemporary dance, ballet and Indian classical dance in Italy, UK and India (Kalakshetra Foundation). She trained at The Place School of Contemporary Dance in London, where she started her professional career (2000-2012). She presented her work as soloist and performed in high-profile international productions in Italy, Europe and India at
prestigious theatres and dance festivals. She is Artistic Director of Gamaka since 2011. She is Assitant Director at the SummerMela Festival  (2013-2025) and Project Coordinator at the Festival Transeuropa
promoted by European Alternatives. She collaborates with FAD Alain Danielou Foundation since 2007 as  coordinator and project manager.